I wish I was posting that I feel tons better and what happened on Monday was just a fluke, but so far I've just achieved a slightly better handle on the pain, but not any great improvement. My doctor called yesterday to check on me and he said if I'm still in pain by next week, he wants to scan my gall bladder since he's not positive this isn't gallstones/gallbladder blockage. If it ends up being that instead of the rib issue, it's not much better because they would want to wait to remove my gallbladder until after the baby is born. At least I could try to control it with diet? The doctor said he'd be surprised if it's gallstones since I don't fit the profile (generally it happens to fat people with bad diets), but pregnancy hormones can make your gallbladder form stones without dietary influence.
So it still hurts to take a deep breath and eating is iffy. I'm having a really hard time eating a normal sized meal, but the doctor said once the pain is better, my appetite should return. He also assured me that the baby "eats first" and I don't have to worry too much about her, which is comforting. As part of my discharge instructions, I'm supposed to be checking fetal movement hourly (even though the baby was absolutely fine) so I have been sipping sweet drinks hourly because I'm impatient, so she hasn't been completely deprived.
My husband is back at work today, so it's just me and the crazy gang today. Peanut woke up on the annoying side of her kennel.
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| You're just going to SIT there all day? AGAIN? |
I was thinking about taking her to daycare today, but I woke up feeling somewhat barfy from a codeine hangover (apparently I'm a lightweight) and I thought some fresh air would help me. I managed to walk the dog and kid for a mile, but Peanut kept looking back at me like "What is WRONG with you? We don't walk at this slow pace!" so I'm not sure it helped calm her down. I got her this to help her get out some of her energy:
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| I get to throw Angry Birds in the house! |
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| Does this pig end taste like bacon? |
I'm thinking of asking the kids next door if they would play with Peanut if I payed them. That would tire her out without me having to wrestle her into the car and deal with her excitement of going into daycare (sounds like a recipe for pain). Hopefully they'll want to earn a buck and I might even throw in cookies to sweeten the deal.
I can't complain about Faith, as she's actually been really good. Look, she even reminded me that I need to put the salt shaker on the island instead of the kitchen table:
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| Guess who can pull out chairs now? |
Faith also let me try out a new hairstyle on her:
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| The first time she has ever allowed a barrette to stay in her hair more than 30 seconds |
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| Mommy, I'm not sure I can trust you with my hair |
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| Don't you remember that bang trim incident?? |
We were really low on fruit and Faith has a deep need for daily berries, so I took her to the store. That may have been a mistake because all that standing and cart pushing was really painful, but I don't feel any worse now that I'm home and resting so that's good. Plus, Faith got to get her favorite lunch of all time (yes, she pretty much gets one every time we go shopping now, but you'd get her one too if you heard her squeal of glee).
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| LUNCHABLE!! |
In other big Faith news, she is officially a big kid now! No, she's not potty trained (she's not interested in that), but we have said good bye to the crib! She got all new furniture delivered yesterday morning, but we haven't painted yet (the furniture came in 2 weeks earlier than anticipated), so here's just the bed:
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| Finally, room to stretch out! |
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| Ahhh, this is what I've waiting for! |
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| Mommy please, I'm trying to nap. |
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| Faith picked out her own bedding at Target, I'm so proud of the ponies. |
We were concerned that the transition would be really hard (we've heard horror stories) but we had one rough nap time yesterday and then bed time was fine and nap time today was fine too. I joked to my husband that this was actually the perfect time to do this transition because I'm not trying to run during nap time and I'm never mad if she interrupts me doing chores or messing around the internet (the more likely option).
We have been really lucky because she doesn't think she can get down from the bed. I spent a lot of time making sure her room was destruction proof, but it's awesome that she just sits in the bed and waits for me to come get her. She climbs in and out of our bed all the time (she likes to "help" wake up my husband on the weekends) so she's capable, but she just hasn't figured that out yet.
Other best part of her new bed? Check out that sweet trundle bed drawer. She is going to love that when she's old enough for sleepovers.
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| Mommy, can Peanut sleep on the trundle bed? We want to giggle all night together. |
How old were you for your first sleepover? I think I was at least 5 or 6, but I remember them involving lots of Barbies and very little actual sleeping.
You should have another slumber party with all your blogger friends. Stock up on feather pillows that break apart, and pack up the nighties. Except for the fat pregnant ones.
ReplyDeleteAnd the ugly ones.
DeleteAnd the stinky ones.
DeleteI don't want to go to your slumber party anyway.
DeleteNow this comment & response thread is some FUNNY shit.
Deleteso glad to hear her transition to the big girl bed was smooth. We had months of long nights putting ours back into bed because she refused to go to sleep/stay in her bed. But, it definitely helps to get them into the big girl bed before your second comes. Sorry to hear about your pain/struggles. Hope you can stay comfortable (or as much as you can being pregnant, hurt, and tending to a toddler!) during the rest of the pregnancy. Despite the sleep deprivation with our second, it is so much better because you start getting your body and energy back after having the baby.
ReplyDeleteI felt that way after Faith...I was so tired from not sleeping when pregnant that having a newborn was actually more restful! :)
DeleteI always wanted a trundle bed when I was a kid. Faith is so lucky!
ReplyDeleteI have no idea when my first sleepover was.
How do you forget a momentous occasion like that??
DeleteI love Faith's flared nostril "WTF" look.
ReplyDeleteThat is one SWEET bed! Plus, putting Faith in a regular bed now means you dont' have to buy another crib for the baby. I SEE how your mind works!
Actually Faith may have destroyed her crib springs by bouncing too much, so the baby will probably still have to get her own fancy new one when she gets big enough to move around.
DeleteThat is an awesome bed! Take care of yourself, Kara. I think my first sleep over was in kindergarten. My house was always the cool house to sleep over at because once my mom falls asleep, she is out for the count so we could make all the noise we wanted and never got yelled at...
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure I'm not going to be that mom haha
DeleteHow long do you anticipate the "she doesn't think she can get down from the bed" honeymoon lasting? I give it until tomorrow, tops.
ReplyDeleteWe should start a betting pool.
DeleteIs Peanut smart enough to use the treadmill? Maybe you can hang a bone off the end and set it to like 6 or 7 and let her go for it.
ReplyDeleteWe tried to get my dog on the treadmill. Even at 2 mph, all she did was lay down in fear until she fell off, which was easily the funniest thing I had seen in quite some time. I guess that is what you get when you have a brain the size of a walnut. Although, she can roll over, play dead, and high five. So she has some redeeming qualities.
No idea when my first sleepover was. When I was a kid, our friends just lived across the street so we sort of lived at various houses. Actually my mom's friend thought we had 3 kids...nope, two. Just one of our friends was ALWAYS at the house.
ReplyDeleteI always wanted bunk beds as a kid, but we didn't have them. I was oddly excited when my first dorm room had them :)
I love Faith's new bed! Trundle beds are so cute and perfect for little children. Hope you start to feel better soon!
ReplyDeleteWTF did I miss. I get a computer virus and fall off the grid and you're in the hospital!?!?! Control yourself.
ReplyDeleteFaith's comforter looks divine. I want to nap.
That big girl bed looks like it's bunk bed scale because Faith looks so little in that photo! No wonder she doesn't think she can get down! lol
ReplyDeleteTrundle bed = awesome. I might have to try to procure a similar big kid bed for Cameron. Although I plan on keeping him in the crib as long as I can because I already know he'll be crawling out of it the second I leave the room!
I seriously hope the pain gets better for you - can't believe you manage to get out for a walk still.
Geez, I stop reading your blog for a few days and you end up in the hospital overnight? Hope you're feeling better soon - definitely pay some kids to take the dog so you can relax! (Read: only take care of one energetic toddler)
ReplyDeleteMy first sleepover was when I was in kindergarten and it was awesome. I still completely remember it.
I think most of my sleepovers ended up with me calling my mom with "an upset stomach" (my code for "these kids are lame" and setting myself up for a lifetime of people-intolerance).
ReplyDeleteAlso, codeine hangover? lame sauce. My grandmother once showed up to lunch with my brother and me after having (allegedly) taken 4 percocet, and then continued to have a couple of margaritas. Lady is a hazard.
Hang on, you may not be fat, but you led me to believe your diet is crap. I bet you secretly love overnight oats, chia, and kale.
ReplyDeleteYou can take codeine while pregnant? I got freaking gypped by this codeine allergy. Those pre-e migraines hurt like a beast.
It sounds like you have your hands full! I hope you feel better. If I lived closer, I'd totally play with Peanut for free. Cutest dog ever :)
ReplyDeleteit's a facade for the devil inside.
Deleteoh my gosh, i can't believe your transition to the bed was so seamless...i suppose it's official, i have a total psycho for a kid. seriously though, i'm glad, you have enough on your plate with your broken rib/possible angry gallbladder!
ReplyDeleteI had a canopy bed when I was little and it was my favorite thing ever! I loved it so much that I decided to play "Heather of the Jungle" and swing from the top, destroying the entire thing. Yet another reason why I can't have nice things! Who knows what I would've done with a trundle bed!
ReplyDeleteHope you feel better soon! That trundle bed is so AH-mahzing. Actually I hate it when people say that but it felt appropo in this situation. I can't remember my first sleep over. It might have been my 10th birthday. But I'm not sure.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love Faith's new bed!! I really hope you're feeling better soon--I'm feeling really sad for you : (
ReplyDeleteI hope you feel better soon! I love Faith's new bed! I would have loved the trundle as a kid.
ReplyDeleteI can't remember my first sleep over. Clearly I am old now and forgetful.
So cute, I love how excited she is!
ReplyDeleteYesterday Lily put her dog on a chair and she just stood there until someone lifted her back to the floor because she didn't know how to get down, was it like that?
Man, I feel terrible, I hope you feel better soon! Darcy has gall bladder stones in pregnancy and she obviously is skinny and hot like you, so it's not just the fatties. Take heart.
Gall ballder stones can also be hereditary. I'm neither fat nor do I have a bad diet but I had to have my gallbladder removed just before my 30th birthday. And my stones come on out of nowhere and there was no going back. I felt like I was having constant heart attacks. Oh the pain. The only relief was sitting up all night long. It sucked balls.
ReplyDeleteYes, diet can control them until surgery. Basically, become a vegan. As long as I avoided animal products (meat, butter, milk and cheese) and beans (those bitches are murder on gallstones), I was good. But my diet was so boring and I hated every second of it.
They kept trying to convince me mine didn't need to come out because I was so young. So I got my dad involved (he's a physician but in another state) and he called my doctor (like the adult I am) and said "get it out." And when they took it out, they couldn't believe how stuffed full of huge gallstones it was.
And post-surgery, I've never had any issues. Email me if you want to talk more but don't let them tell you it can't be that because of your age and size. Get an ultrasound done of your gallbladder if you haven't already.
I agree with Jackie. I was 22 when I had my gallbladder removed due to gallstones, and the only criteria I met was that I was female. Took 4 months to figure out what was causing my chronic stomach cramps and pains after every meal, and by the end I was living off of apples, ham sandwiches, and hummus. I was living in the rainforest, so my non-bean, non-nut vegan options were limited. According to my surgeon, once you get gallstones the first time, your gallbladder is already not functioning normally, so the best plan is to remove the thing. Now life is good, sans gallbladder.
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